‘I Started a Joke’ Was Only the Beginning — Inside Robin Gibb’s Haunting Final Days and the Secret Agony He Never Let the World See

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Introduction

On May 20, 2012, the world said goodbye to one of its most distinctive and enduring musical talents—Robin Gibb of the Bee Gees. At 62, he passed away after a long, determined fight with colon cancer, pneumonia, and kidney failure. Though his health ultimately failed him, the music he crafted with his brothers Barry and Maurice continues to echo across generations.

Robin Gibb was far more than a remarkable vocalist; he was the emotional core behind many of the Bee Gees’ most unforgettable ballads. Classics such as “Massachusetts” and “I Started a Joke” remain etched in the memories of millions—songs steeped in longing and introspection, brought to life through Robin’s trembling vibrato and lyrical intensity. His unmistakable tone and artistic sensibilities helped forge a sound that would redefine pop music across decades, from the group’s early beginnings to the height of the disco era.

Yet behind the artistry was a man shaped not only by musical genius but also by personal challenges. Robin’s bond with his brothers—especially Barry—was often turbulent. Their disagreements left deep marks, and even as Robin’s health faded, certain tensions lingered. Barry later spoke of the remorse he carried over their unresolved conflicts, a sorrow that surfaced profoundly during his heartfelt eulogy.

Robin’s final year was a mixture of optimism and heartbreak. In early 2012, he shared hopeful news that he had overcome cancer, only for his condition to worsen dramatically soon after. When he slipped into a coma in April, doctors feared the worst; yet Robin briefly regained consciousness in a moment many described as nothing short of miraculous. His medical team credited this to his extraordinary determination. Sadly, complications from treatment and his fragile organs ultimately proved too much.

Robin passed away quietly, surrounded by those he loved most. His son Robin-John clasped his hand and played “I Started a Joke” against his chest as he took his final breath—a profoundly poetic farewell, echoing the very song that once moved the world to tears.

His loss left an immense void within the Gibb family, especially for Barry, now the sole surviving Bee Gee. Having already endured the deaths of Maurice in 2003 and Andy in 1988, Barry faced not only overwhelming grief but the burden of unresolved disputes. He later urged others to value their relationships, reminding them that in the end, arguments mean nothing compared to love.

Beyond the spotlight, Robin lived a life filled with affection, missteps, and complicated family ties. His marriage to Dwina endured until his death despite public scrutiny and personal trials. He was the father of four children, including one born from an extramarital affair, and although his will stirred controversy, he sought to support his family as best he could.

Robin’s final request was simple and deeply symbolic: he wished for “How Deep Is Your Love” to be played at his funeral. The song reflected the essence of his life—a blend of sorrow and beauty, harmony and conflict. As its melody filled the room, it served not just as a farewell but as a lasting reminder of the love, loss, and legacy he leaves behind.

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