Brooks & Dunn on Whether or Not They Actually Like Each Other + Why

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Introduction

The relationship between Kix Brooks and Ronnie Dunn, the iconic duo Brooks & Dunn, has been a topic of much discussion over their decades-long career. While they have achieved unparalleled success as a duo, their personal dynamic has often been described as more of a “working relationship” than a close friendship, especially in their early years and leading up to their initial split.

Here’s a breakdown of their dynamic:

Early Years & Initial Hesitation:

  • Not friends at first: When they were first paired together in 1988 by record producer Tim DuBois, Brooks and Dunn were essentially strangers. Both were solo artists who had experienced some struggles and were reluctant to form a duo. They were both in their late 30s/early 40s and had their own solo aspirations.
  • Skepticism: Kix Brooks famously recalled meeting Ronnie Dunn “over an enchilada” and both thinking, “We don’t wanna do this. We don’t know each other. I mean, this is just silly.”
  • It “shouldn’t have worked”: They’ve often stated that their partnership “never should have worked” given their differing personalities and initial reluctance.

The “Working Relationship” and Artistic Differences:

  • Professional respect: Despite not always being “best friends,” they always maintained a strong professional respect for each other’s talents and songwriting abilities. They were highly effective collaborators, with their distinct styles blending to create their signature sound.
  • Tension and recording separately: As their career progressed, there were periods of tension. By the late 1990s, the friction grew to the point where they were reportedly recording songs for albums in different studios with different producers.
  • Desire for solo careers: A primary reason for their initial breakup in 2009 was the individual desire to pursue solo projects. Ronnie Dunn, in particular, expressed wanting to make a record without having to “look over my shoulder.” Kix Brooks understood and supported this.

The Split and Reunion:

  • No “drama” or “fights”: They have stated that their split wasn’t due to dramatic fights but rather a natural evolution and a shared feeling that it was “just time” to call it a day after 20 years.
  • “Good friends” after the split: Even after their breakup, they maintained that they were still good friends. Ronnie Dunn, post-split, even joked about never reuniting, saying “What is (the phrase) – ‘when hell freezes over?’ I’ll play that.”
  • Reba McEntire’s Role in Reunion: Interestingly, their reunion in 2015 for a Las Vegas residency with Reba McEntire played a significant role in them getting back together. This collaborative venture paved the way for their successful “Reboot” album and subsequent tours.

Current Dynamic:

  • More comfortable: While they still might not be inseparable, their relationship seems to have evolved into a more comfortable and appreciative one. They acknowledge the ups and downs but also the immense success and legacy they’ve built together.
  • Mutual respect for their legacy: They share a deep pride in the music they’ve created and the mark they’ve left on country music.

In essence, Brooks & Dunn’s relationship has been complex. It wasn’t always a close friendship, especially initially, and artistic differences led to tensions and their split. However, a foundational respect for each other’s talent and a shared vision for their music allowed them to overcome challenges, reunite, and continue to be one of country music’s most beloved and successful duos.

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